Studies Show that Forgiveness is Vital for our Health
Friday, February 29th, 2008Dr. Luskin of
“Getting angry and needing to forgive are things universal phenomena, but the skills to forgive are inadequately taught.”
Holding on to anger for too long can obviously affect a person’s emotional health. But hanging on to that anger, Dr. Luskin says, can also seriously affect people’s physical health.
He cites several studies that show how anger can affect the cardiovascular system by adding to a person’s general level of stress. Other studies have indicated that patients who have had heart attacks have been able to improve their physical health by practicing forgiveness and working to feel more tolerant and less angry.
How to Relieve Stress with Forgiveness
I genuinely still feel annoyed when I think about this. Not just at her for being so patronizing (funny how I turned out to be a health writer) but also at myself for not walking out of the classroom and heading straight for the principle’s office, or at least telling my parents so they could have pulled her up on it.
So today I am officially forgiving Mrs. H (whatever her name was) for being a very disempowering teacher, and myself for not being more open and strong. I let go of all negative emotions attached to this experience, and will enjoy the improved emotional and physical health benefits that this will bring me.
